why do guys...

why do guys...
suddenly pop up out of the blue with txt msgs, phone calls, emails --asking what you are up too? and somewhat insinuating that they want to get together and do something...sometimes they plaine out say it (after revealing that they lost your number and can you give it back to him?) and then when you reply... you never hear back from them. they mysteriously disappear into an unknown vortex or a 3dimmention until a few months later, maybe a year later they will resurface. as if nothing happened.

are aliens randomnly abducting these guys once they reach out to you?

are they falling off the face of the planet as soon as they finish contacting you?

are they all Batman?

is there a big "if you are a penis owner" convention somewhere hidden at the core center of the earth were they all get together in secrecy and talk about who they just contacted and poofed on?

do they forget how to use phones, computers, and communication skills and scientists are working on a cure?

i don't know. why do guys do that? pop up out of the blue to say hey, and when you start showing the slightest interest into saying hey back even if you know they are probably wasting your time like they have in the past you think --but he took the initiative to contact ME. so maybe you should give him a chance right?...then poof.

it could be a simple exchange in txt msgs, emails, phone calls, or hell you may make that initial contact: coffee, movie, whatever..maybe start seeing each other again and then suddenly just when you think things are going well...he seems to have a higher calling and you will not hear back from him for a while. am i missing something? did i not get the memo for what was so damn important that you must cease all communication for an undetermined period of time?

i've also noticed that july seems to be a big month for "the sudden pop ups".